My Journey of Becoming

From questioning my worth to discovering my purpose—this is the story of how God transformed my pain into passion and my waiting into wisdom.

ME & MY JOURNEY

Faith Similoluwa Omitiran is a multifaceted professional whose expertise spans medicine, marriage mentoring, Godly life coaching, relationship counseling, entrepreneurship, and Christian ministry. She is a devoted wife and mother, deeply passionate about building godly relationships, mentoring young adults, and transforming lives through Christ.
Faith holds qualifications in Perioperative Nursing (R/N), Science Laboratory Technology (ND), Family Life Practice (FLP) majoring in Sex Therapy, Marital Issues study, and Public Health (BSc, MSc). With over 13 years of clinical experience as a perioperative nurse, medical laboratory assistant, and currently serves as a Medical Supervisor in a healthcare facility, while also working as an Assistant Laboratory Technologist per-time. Driven by her passion for family life and godly relationships, she counsels and serves ministry, alongside managing her business ventures.
She is the visionary founder of Simikay Care Foundation, registered NGO dedicated to raising whole individuals, godly marriages, strengthening families, and transforming communities one person at a time. Faith also serves as the CEO of Simikay’s Place, a lifestyle and empowerment brand offering holistic solutions in food, fashion, wellness, skill acquisition, and event planning.
Faith is the founder and coordinator of Living Knowledge Community, a discipleship and mentorship platform for unmarried believers. The community empowers singles to discover their purpose, cultivate godly character, and walk in Christ-centered wholeness before seeking a life partner. And the Host behind the Annual Singles Date.
A gifted writer, author, music minister, creative strategist, seamstress, fashion upgrader, and hairstylist, Faith has spoken at various conferences, featured in gospel music recordings, and actively participates in community service and public speaking. Her life and work are anchored in the belief that ministry is not confined to a pulpit but is lived out daily in words, actions, and service.
Faith is joyfully married for over a decade to a godly man and is a mother to four “powerful nations” (three biological, one by divine assignment). Beyond her social media presence, she is a vessel of grace, wisdom, and practical inspiration, bringing God-inspired ideas to life with clarity, excellence, and impact.
She lives by this principle:
“I would rather believe the best in people and be disappointed occasionally than believe the worst and miss God’s blessings.”
A dynamite in a small package, Faith Similoluwa Kayode-Omitiran is a kingdom builder, servant leader, and woman wholly committed to seeing lives transformed for God’s glory.

The Questions That Haunted Me

I remember the nights when silence felt deafening. The weddings I attended with a smile on my face and questions in my heart. “When will it be my turn? What’s wrong with me? Am I not enough?”

For years, I watched friends transition into marriage while I remained single. Society’s timeline whispered that I was falling behind. Family gatherings became uncomfortable interrogations. Church events felt like reminders of what I didn’t have.

Singleness, in my mind, was a problem that needed solving. A gap that needed filling. A temporary state that was stretching far too long. I believed the lie that my life couldn’t truly begin until someone chose me.

I spent years believing I was incomplete, not realizing I was already whole—I just couldn't see it yet.

The Battles No One Saw

Behind the accomplishments and the smiles, I was fighting invisible battles. Battling insecurity that told me I wasn’t attractive enough. Wrestling with comparison that made me measure my worth against others’ relationships. Fighting loneliness that crept in during quiet moments.

I threw myself into work, into ministry, into everything that could distract me from the ache. I became excellent at staying busy—but deep down, I was running from myself. Running from the fear that maybe I would always be alone. Running from the wounds I hadn’t yet addressed.

The hardest part? Pretending to be okay when I wasn’t. Celebrating others while privately grieving. Offering advice about patience and trust while my own heart questioned if God had forgotten about me.

The Moment Everything Changed

One ordinary evening became the catalyst for everything. I had hit my breaking point—tired of pretending, tired of waiting, tired of feeling incomplete. In that raw, vulnerable moment, I cried out to God with complete honesty.

And in the stillness that followed, I heard Him speak—not audibly, but clearly: “You are already complete in Me. This season is not punishment. It’s preparation.”

That night, something shifted. I realized I had been waiting for marriage to give me permission to live fully, when God was inviting me to live fully right now. I had been viewing singleness as a deficit when God saw it as an opportunity—a sacred season designed for my transformation.

For the first time, I stopped asking “When?” and started asking “What do You want to teach me here, God?”

Becoming Who I Was Created to Be

What followed was the most beautiful, painful, and transformative season of my life. I started intentionally healing from past wounds instead of burying them. I began building my identity on who God said I was, not on relationship status or societal expectations.

I learned to enjoy my own company. To pursue dreams that had been sitting on the shelf. To invest in friendships, community, and my relationship with God in ways I never had before. I discovered gifts I didn’t know I had. I found purpose that didn’t require a partner to validate it.

Slowly, singleness stopped feeling like a prison and started feeling like freedom. Freedom to become. Freedom to grow. Freedom to discover the woman I was meant to be—whole, confident, and grounded in Christ.

That transformation became the foundation for everything I do today. Because I discovered something powerful: when you stop waiting for your life to begin and start living intentionally where you are, everything changes.

Experience & Expertise

Over a decade of professional experience combined with personal transformation to serve you better.

Mentor

Guiding Singles through their journey of self-discovery, personal development, spiritual growth and defining the dynamics of their relationships for over 13years.

Counselor

Certified Family Life Practitioner, majoring in Marital Issues, Sex Therapy and Premarital-Counselling

Entrepreneur

Founder SIMIKAY CARE FOUNDATION dedicated to counselling and total wellbeing and CEO SIMIKAY’S PLACE

Healthcare Professional

13 years Clinical experience as a Morgue assistant, Perioperative Nurse, Medical laboratory assistant, and Medical Supervisor.

What I Do Today

My transformation became my mission—to help others discover wholeness and purpose in their season of singleness.

One-on-One Mentorship

Personalized guidance for singles navigating questions of identity, purpose, healing, and preparation for meaningful relationships.

Counseling & Coaching

Christ-centered counseling that addresses emotional wounds, builds healthy self-esteem, and cultivates spiritual maturity.

Teaching & Speaking

Hosting workshops, conferences, and events that inspire, equip, and empower singles to embrace their season with purpose.

Resource Creation

Writing devotionals, books, and guides that provide practical wisdom and spiritual insight for intentional living.

Organizations & Leadership

Building communities and platforms that create lasting impact.

Simikay's Place

SIMIKAY’S PLACE is a holistic wellness and lifestyle brand specializing in fashion styling, wedding and party essentials, catering services, counselling and wellness support, health and beauty products, fashion design and skill acquisition, rental services, and general contracts.

Simikay Care Foundation

Founder – Simikays Care Foundation is a non-profit and non-political organisation committed to holistic care, personal development, and community impact, providing counselling, mentorship, and support for singles, engaged couples, and families.

Living Knowledge Community

Community Leader — A vibrant online and in-person community where singles connect, grow, and support one another through faith-based practices.

Annual Singles Date

Host & Organizer — A yearly event celebrating singleness, featuring workshops, panels, and networking for intentional singles seeking growth and community.

"Singleness is not a season to wait. It is a season to grow and become."

This is the truth that changed everything for me—and it’s the message I’m committed to sharing with you.

My Story Continues

Today, I’m blessed with a beautiful marriage and a growing family. But here’s what I want you to know: marriage was not the beginning of my purpose—it was the continuation of it.

The work I did during my single season—the healing, the growth, the identity I built in Christ—became the foundation for a healthy marriage. The woman I became in that season is the woman I brought into this new chapter.

Marriage didn’t complete me. Christ already had. Marriage didn’t give me purpose. I already had it. And that’s exactly what I want for you—to discover that you are whole, complete, and purposeful right now, exactly where you are.

The best gift you can give your future is becoming whole in your present.